Before the wedding

How did it land?

If we've spent time together before your wedding, I'd love to hear what it was like for you. The below takes about five minutes.

In your words

Your first name I'll need your name to know who this is from.

What's the biggest thing you gained or learnt from this process?

What was it like working with me? What helped, and what surprised you.

What would you say to a couple thinking about doing this before their wedding?

What could I have done better? This one stays between us.

Can I share what you wrote?

What couples write here helps other couples decide whether to do this before their wedding. I'll only share it the way you choose, and I'll check with you before anything goes up.

Yes, with my first nameYour words, signed with your first name. Yes, but keep me anonymousSomething like "Married in 2027" in place of your name. No, keep it between usNothing you've written leaves this page.

Pick one so I know how to treat your answers.

Goes straight to me. Nobody else reads it.

How did it land?

In your words

Can I share what you wrote?

Thank you.